Family Services

Getting Ready for Love

Getting Ready for Love

"Getting Ready for Love" is an 8-week group course designed for singles seeking to prepare for marriage. Rooted in Islamic teachings and practical relationship-building strategies, the course covers essential topics like communication, conflict resolution, financial planning, and emotional readiness. Through interactive discussions, practical exercises, and expert insights, participants will gain the tools to build a healthy, fulfilling marriage grounded in mutual respect, trust, and Islamic values. Perfect for those ready to embark on a lifelong commitment with confidence and clarity.

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Marriage

Department

  • Family Services

TimeLine

Oct 7, 2024 - Dec 9, 2024

Duration

2 Months

Sessions

8

Language

English

Location

On-Site (Live)

Time

12:00 am

Rating

4.5 (110 ratings)

Price

Ā£50.00 per month

Total Cost

Ā£100

Key Objectives

  • Understand the Islamic Perspective of Marriage: Recognise the spiritual significance of marriage in Islam and how to approach it as a sacred covenant
  • Develop Essential Communication Skills: Learn how to communicate effectively with a future spouse through active listening, empathy, and clear expression.
  • Gain Conflict Resolution Skills: Explore methods to manage and resolve conflicts in a healthy manner that promotes mutual respect.
  • Financial Readiness: Understand financial roles, responsibilities, and planning to maintain a healthy marriage.
  • Explore the Importance of Compatibility: Learn about the role of values, beliefs, and personal goals in building a harmonious marriage.
  • Prepare Emotionally and Mentally: Develop emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and readiness for the personal growth that marriage requires.
  • Learn About Mutual Responsibilities in Marriage: Explore the rights and duties of both husband and wife in line with Islamic teachings.
  • The Course Includes

  • 8 Weekly Sessions: Covering key aspects of marital readiness including expectations, communication, conflict resolution, financial management, and intimacy.
  • Interactive Group Discussions: Participants will engage in thought-provoking discussions with peers to explore diverse perspectives.
  • Practical Tools and Exercises: Weekly tasks and exercises aimed at applying course concepts in real-life situations.
  • Guest Speakers: Relationship and Islamic scholars will share their insights into building a successful marriage.
  • Resource Materials: Access to recommended readings, lectures, and handouts for deeper learning.
  • Q&A Sessions: Opportunities to ask questions and receive guidance from the course instructors.
  • Course Schedule

    Schedule UTC+001
    Monday7:00 PM - 8:00 PM

    Description

    Week 1: Introduction to Marriage in Islam – Expectations and Goals

    Week 2: Effective Communication Skills for Marital Success

    Week 3: Conflict Resolution Techniques

    Week 4: Financial Readiness and Management

    Week 5: Compatibility – Values, Beliefs, and Shared Goals

    Week 6: Emotional and Mental Preparation for Marriage

    Week 7: Roles and Responsibilities of Spouses

    Week 8: Commitment, Trust, and Growth in Marriage

    Requirements

    • Participants should be single and seriously considering marriage.
    • Basic understanding of Islamic principles regarding family life and relationships is recommended but not mandatory.
    • Active participation in group discussions and activities.
    • Commitment to weekly classes and completion of reflection tasks.

    Instructor(s)

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    Rakin Fetuga

    4.5 (110 ratings)

    30 Courses ā€¢ 525,181 students

    Ustadh Rakin Niass Fetuga, a British-born Nigerian, is an islamic community Leader, relationship coach, educator, and author. With a degree in Sociology and a postgraduate certificate in Social Emotional and Behavioural Difficulties, he has over 30 years of personal experience in marriage. As a certified coach, he uses solution-focused techniques to help couples prepare for marriage and manage challenges. He is the author of “Getting Ready for Love”, a guide for Muslims planning to marry or looking to strengthen their relationships.

    Rakin is also the CEO of Crescent Moon Media, a record label, and teaches Religious Studies at Oasis Academy Hadley, alongside weekend Islamic Studies. Committed to supporting youth, he founded Save Our Boys, an initiative focused on addressing youth violence through community events and school workshops. At Rumiā€™s Cave, he contributes as a teacher, event host, and Imam for Friday prayers and Ramadan taraweeh.

    With his hands-on approach in relationship coaching, education, and youth outreach, Rakin offers practical support and guidance to both individuals and communities.

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